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When a man is distant after sex, it leaves the woman he’s involved with full of questions. She wonders what’s going on and what exactly she did wrong. In most cases, if she tries to talk to him about it, he’ll act surprised or say he has no idea what she means. If you are in this position with the man you’re interested in, you know it can leave you second guessing yourself. You’ll feel unsure of everything. You’ll question whether he didn’t enjoy himself when you two were making love or if he ever really cared for you at all. It’s difficult and if you leave it unaddressed, chances are that the distance he’s trying to attain will be a permanent thing. You don’t want that so you need to first understand why he’s acting this way and also it’s important to learn what you can do to change it.

Understanding what it means when a man is distant after sex isn’t nearly as complicated as you may think. Some women automatically assume it means that he’s withdrawing because he’s so overcome with emotion. That’s not the case at all. Typically if a man starts to pull back after you two have slept together it’s because he’s questioning the timing. If you two just started dating and you were already intimate, that may impress him in the moment, but afterwards it won’t. As soon as it’s over he’ll start wondering whether your willingness to share yourself so openly is something you regularly do.

Men don’t want to feel as though the women they are with are promiscuous. They don’t ever want to wonder whether you’ve slept with other men as soon in your relationship with them. If you did it with him, he’s going to assume you’ve done it with other men too.

Obviously you can’t go back and undo the intimacy. That line has been crossed already. If this man is someone you believe you want to build a relationship with, you have to get to work changing his image of you.

To begin with it means no more sex until you’ve established a new dynamic with him. You’re going to take a step backwards and date the man. Since he’s become distant, don’t count on him asking you out again. He may but chances are that he’s doing it because he wants to be intimate, and little more. You have to set the new guidelines for the relationship. Meet him at your date destination instead of him picking you up. Don’t go back to his place for now. Just steer clear of any situations that would put you in a position of him expecting you to have sex.

If you can do this for a few weeks, and get to know him on a basic level, the rushed intimacy will become a thing of the past. Work on establishing a real emotional connection with him and the fact that you slept with him so soon won’t seem so unflattering anymore.

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The best golf swing advice I have ever been given was to stick to the fundamentals. This not only applies to the full swing tee shots and iron shots but also to all other various shots you have to play during a round of golf. Every type of shot that you will encounter has a basic fundamental way to approach it and than it may have variations from that, but you must begin with the fundamentals.

In this article I would like to give you some good golf swing advice regarding the fundamentals of playing out of a green side bunker. Once you master the basics of playing from the sand trap around the green, you can easily move on to learning variations of the basic shot.

There are 4 keys to the basic sand shot from around the green:

1. Use your sand wedge . That's what it's made for. Here, the name sand wedge.
2. Take an open stance . Your whole body alignment should be well left of your target on the green. Do not worry! Stick to these fundamentals and the ball will go right where you want it to go.
3. Firm footing . It is essential that you get a firm place in the sand. Move your feet from side to side to dig down into the sand to accomplish this if necessary. You must be able to maintain good balance during your swing.
4. Choke up . Because you ground your feet into the sand, you are now closer to the ball, so you need to compensate for that by choking up on the club.
5. Do not look at the ball . The sand shot is played by hitting the sand about an inch to an inch and a half behind the ball. You need to focus on that spot and not the ball. On the swing the club head will slide under the ball and come out of the trap on a bed of sand. The club head will never touch the ball.

Okay, I know that was 5 keys and not 4, but I had to throw in the one about using the sand wedge. Believe it or not, many amateur golfers are afraid to use the sand wedge.

Master these keys for your green side sand shots and you'll never worry about being in the sand again.

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